Okay, so investigations attached.
I took out the 13 pin plug at the trans and there was lots of oil in there. I cleaned it all out including some in one of the pins, put it back together and.......... no change.
Does tell me it's time to change that housing though. Local MB dealership only sells it as part of the electronics plate for around $600 but they are available on eBay for around $26 delivered from OS. See attached pic for identification plate of transmission.
I removed the plug back of the shifter and took voltages with the ignition on. Across plug 1 and 12 I got 8.5V. Nothing across 1 and 11.
I replaced that plug then removed the plug from the TCM and took a voltage across pins 29 and 30 as mentioned. Nothing showing at all. Tried other pins and nothing. See photo attached.
Guy from Mercedes locally said he thought it would either be the electrical plate or the shifter. I hate lucky dips.
Let me know your thoughts guys. Again the help is appreciated.