With the variloks I would've needed some wheelspin to move forward from that situation. Using only the rear locker was impressive.
It's fixed now:
New copper line soldered in and I also welded a tab to prevent rotation.
Inside roundness checked, only 0.10mm of swelling close to the copper line. It's still flat when laid flat on a piece of glass.
What I suspect I did wrong during the install:
1. Installed the ARB master shim the wrong way around, rounded over edge towards the seal housing instead of towards the bearing - not that important I think)
2. I added the preload shims towards the outside, instead of between the seal housing and the bearing. The shim would have pushed the seal housing that little bit away from the bearing cage to prevent rotation.
This was a recommended solution on Jeepforum to avoid pushing the seal housing too far towards the outside. Measurements showed that without any shims it's actually too far in and the X-ring partially covers the air hole in the carrier. All good now with the shim between the bearing and the seal housing.