I just had a look at those pictures on
http://www.caradvice.com.au/category...nty-complaints.
In my uneducated opinion it looks to me like the axis of the trailer or van or whatever had been towed was not level with the car.
Sure ... when you travel on a non-level-road (eg corrugations, etc) the thing attached on the back will jump up and down, left and right while being pulled, but never the less the pulling force can be imagined as a line going through the hitch receiver, parallel to the axis/frame of the trailer/van.
If the axis is not level eg. the trailer/van is lower or higher than then the hitch receiver +/- 3-5cm will receive an stress pulling the assembly downwards.
What can make things worse is pulling the trailer/van over a high obstacle with too much force. Eg. over rocks with height > 1/3 of height of the sidewall height of the trailer tyres (yes .. if they are deflated it will make it worse) or coming down a hill, the truck having reached the bottom and going in a different angle or trailer/van is down and truck is just about to ascending ... there is a point where the truck is pulling up and the van still wants to go down.
Things can be made worse by the back of the van then bottoming out.
Other problem would be if you don't have stabilisiers the thing on the back will be pulled right and left.
All of the above can contribute to the fatigue.
Not saying that this happened in 'signwilson's case, I just wanted to bring up that the correct level of the trailer is very important, specially after a lift, as well as stabilisers and working suspensions on the trailer/van.
I don't think that this will be a big deal to fix as long as you stay away from Jeep.
You can weld U-Brakets (maybe thicker this time or use high grate aluminum) to reinforce the current frame and put a plate where the holes are.