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Here is quite a good site for the info you asked for.
https://www.12voltplanet.co.uk/relay-guide.html
Basically it explains the main differences, which boil down to
Operating Voltage & coil resistance
Switching current
Pin outs (connections)
& if they have a built in fuse/resistor/diode.
I take it Jeep use a Resistor Relay, as they can't rely on their techs to always connect it up correctly, as a Diode Relay would be far superior, if the control feed to the relay and the ground are the correct way round. Unfortunately a relay will work quite happily with the wires reversed, and the only clue it was reversed will be a small puff of smoke, and a slight burning smell the first time it was used, where the Diode burns out, but after that it will appear to work normally, just with a huge risk of dammage to the ECU.
The Resistor/Diode in the relay is there to stop a reverse current being sent back to the control unit that can cause damage to electronic components when the relay is switched off.
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