If anyone is interested here is what it came down to; patrol 3.0l turbo diesel 118kw, 380nm, tow cap 3200kg, around the mid 40s and then there is what i have gone for ; rodeo 3.0l turbo diesel, 120kw, 360nm, tow cap 3000kg a bit over 30k and leaves some change for hyd hoist for flat tray
so a happy chappy