wow. youve done heaps. Listen, spend ten minutes and take the front drive shaft out of the car.
Take it for a drive.
Is the vibe still there?
If not, chances are it is a pinion angle problem associated with a lift in the suspension.
Youll need to correct the pinion angle. An easy fix at a suspension shop, or, if your handy, you should be able to do it yourself. Plenty of tips on that topic on here.
If it goes away when you take the shaft out, what else could it possibly be? Pinion angle.
Or a front drivehaft thats either out of balance, or not running eccentic. A tailshaft shop can fix that for you, make sure they check its straight if you go that route.
good luck with it, process of elimination is the only way to do it without throwing away money at unnecessary replacements.