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[lifted TJ]

Yeah i love my daughter i get her 4nights of the week which is awesome. Much rather have the family together but this is the best part of my current situation. Dunno about leaving me for another bloke she says no but i told her if i find out there will be consequences!

[layback40]

Originally Posted by lifted TJ

Yeah i love my daughter i get her 4nights of the week which is awesome. Much rather have the family together but this is the best part of my current situation. Dunno about leaving me for another bloke she says no but i told her if i find out there will be consequences!

Best not sound threatening in any way.
4 nights a week ~ you are in good shape. Dont mention to her but you may get custody as you have her more than 1/2 time. & then your ex may be up for child support payments to you.
I do not envy you & you have a big battle in front of you. Best just keep smiling !! Best not show your anger in front of your daughter or to your ex. If need be, take it out on us on here.

[Fat Chili]

Originally Posted by lifted TJ

Yeah i love my daughter i get her 4nights of the week which is awesome. Much rather have the family together but this is the best part of my current situation. Dunno about leaving me for another bloke she says no but i told her if i find out there will be consequences!

My first wife said the same thing after 7 years "I just don't love you anymore" blah blah bullshit - then a new boyfriend appeared several weeks later, lying sack of shit! Luckily no kids were involved.
But life goes on as much as it hearts like hell and my second wife is the best (for putting up with me), we have now been together for 10 years with 3 great kids.

So don't trust her, at the time of my break up the physch I went to see in the Army told me that statistically 3 out of 4 relationships break up due to the female, yet blokes get the bad name! The physch was a female too.

Keep yer chin up and keep busy to keep your mind off it.

[lifted TJ]

Cheers blokes!

[Fat Chili]

Anyhoo back to the RANT - I've been stuck on this shitty Island called Curtis now for 2 weeks, with 8 days to go before I can go home......and counting! Over it.

[layback40]

Originally Posted by Fat Chili

My first wife said the same thing after 7 years "I just don't love you anymore" blah blah bullshit - then a new boyfriend appeared several weeks later, lying sack of shit! Luckily no kids were involved.
But life goes on as much as it hearts like hell and my second wife is the best (for putting up with me), we have now been together for 10 years with 3 great kids.

So don't trust her, at the time of my break up the physch I went to see in the Army told me that statistically 3 out of 4 relationships break up due to the female, yet blokes get the bad name! The physch was a female too.

Keep yer chin up and keep busy to keep your mind off it.

Very wise words.

[anthonygubbin]

Have an idea what you are going through Lifted. My wife left me two years ago after nine years of marriage. I lost the house as the repayments were $600 a week, basically my whole take home pay. I could not buy her out on my wages. We had no children so that makes it some what easier. Although I lost everything, including my job. Only ended up with some settlement money, the Jeep a few things from inside the house and my tools.
Now I have had to start again. I could only afford a shitty block in the middle of no where in Tassie. I now live in a caravan. Starting again I am finding pretty hard. I just hope I can scrape up enough to get my shed erected once I pay the balance in a week or two. AJOR has been a blessing that's for sure. When I announced my separation 18 months ago a fair few blokes said to me come up north stay a night or two and have some beers. I can say it gets easier as time goes on but it does take a while IMO.

Regards A