I really like the Uneek front bumper...good value, fits great, and is fairly light (I fitted mine by myself).
I like the AEV snorkel - its the simplest design, has only one joint at the airbox and the whole snorkel is above the level of the airbox....most others drop below the airbox and have multiple joints.
I wouldn't use a MOPAR lift, they don't have a great rep. The AEV lift is usually a bit stiffer than others...meant for load carrying on trips, but I'd talk to some of the reputable Jeep shops and get their opinions based on your usage....try SBR, Murchisons etc etc.
Have a look on Ebay for Wild Boar grab handles...solid metal handles that I prefer to the previous soft handles I had in my JK.....can be had for good prices.
Rear recovery points...if keeping the factory plastic bar, have a look at BlackJack Welding's rear recovery points....very heavy duty, designed for use with the plastic bar. The Uneek front bar has recovery points on it.
Winch...there are some good value ones out there....I researched them and bought a Runva 9500lb, but mine's a JK....for a JKU, I think I'd go the 11,000lb version.
Congratulations on your purchase.