Over ~6 years my hemi has been pretty consistent around 13-17L/100KM on road (including dirt roads I mean.) in high range.
13L/100KM is about the best it'll do cruising on freeway, and 16-17L/100KM for running errands around and trips on the back roads.
Similar setup to Brad Jones, fully loaded boot, stuff on the roof, 32" muddies and some armour.
Think I was getting ~400-500km from the stock tank from memory. I installed the LRA AUX tank early so not sure. Get around 1000-1200KM with both tanks (around 160L) on the trips we do.
Hard to know the real pros and cons without owning both. But seems like you can't go wrong either way.
Personally I'm not a fan of diesel passenger cars; annoying (for me) to maintain and terrible emissions.
That said I originally looked at CRDs coz I wanted the bit extra fuel range, but decided to go with the hemi when a deal came up, and I drove one and found the AUX tank existed.
Not worth trying to compare long-term cost, it probably balances out in the wash. Lower fuel cost but higher maintenance on the CRD, etc.
So I recon it just comes down to whether you prefer petrol or diesel