Thanks for the heads up, that would explain what happened to the guy in the video I saw on youtube. He put new parts in his starter and it would engage but not spin. I actually did a sneaky and bought another starter at the same time as the brush kit, because I just KNOW how these things like to never go to plan and I got one for $150 overnighted to me... Glad I did too. I pulled the starter today because it's getting REALLY sluggish and I have a lot of running around to do, and just needed it to WORK. The oil contamination actually was barely anything, it was just some minor crud on the casing so no problem there. But the bendix is crazy loose. If you shake the starter, the bendix and shaft that it's on just move in and out very freely... So I'm thinking brushes alone may not be what it needs.
Thankfully, the replacement starter works a treat, the removal and install was a breeze, all of my contacts and grounds are in mint condition, didn't even need cleaning but I did so anyway to be safe. Once the brush kit arrives I'll tear down the old starter and see just how bad it is inside, and maybe throw up some photos and such for the curious minded. I see what you guys mean about the Mitsubishi stuff too, soon as I pulled my oem starter I noticed it has the sticker with Chrysler and then Mitsubishi and all those mitsubishi part numbers on it, pretty cool!
Hopefully the stock unit can be saved, I'd very much like to have a backup on the shelf for a rainy day