You'll pay $500-$1000 for a stock, old dirty D60 rear out of a chevy or similar, and close to double that for a front.... iF you can find one. There is a importer of us trucks and parts outside of Euroa Vic whi may source on for you, can't recall his name right now. He also brings in Yukon gears and parts.
Ian C in Qld had a d60 front, I think he wanted about 1500 for it a while back. Was selling it with a 14 bolt rear, both were about 67" wms I think. Way wide.
As far as what to look for, almost any D60 you find will be way to wide for a tj, wrong stud pattern, probably open centre, too tall gears, rusty and covered in filth, probably missing outer bits.....
Then cut them down to suit your required width. Then fit new hubs, bearings, brakes, spindles to front to suit your stud pattern, outer C's. Mod your steering links to suit, find a suitable pitman arm etc, or convert all to hi steer.
Then gears, lockers, mod tailshafts. Fab and weld on suspension and panhard brackets. Diff covers, brake lines, and get new cro mo axles cut to suit width, and rear axle flanges drilled to suit font stud pattern.... And find suitable rear brake drums to go over stud pattern.
Probably forgotten a few things in that.
It will cost a bomb, and take a while.
Buds customs in Qld can build a really good diff based on a patrol centre member in a fabricated housing, with either 80 series outers or Dana 60 C's and kingpin set up. Maybe ring them about costs, but again, not cheap.
Or...
But some dynatracs from JeepKonnection/ pro comp, or some Terraflex units from DBOR, either of which will come to your specs, and bolt straight it.
Budget for Up to $15k for bolt ins, cheaper for build your own.
Or..
Sell your tj, buy mine with high pinion disc braked locked geared D44 and D 60 Solid Axle Industries diffs in it already.