Tow 2T van, always sit on speed limit in "D", Outback trips through SA and NT with 35/40° days towing for around 8 hours (done this twice now, around 6000km in 3 weeks each time) not one transmission problem other then spewing out excess fluid out the dip stick when I over filled it.
Stock trans cooler and radiator, never had a trans temp warning when towing (have off road doing low speed crawling).
Got mine at 130,000km now has 240,000km and the transmission is getting tired and needs some TLC (torque converter needs a Clutch Release Kit (see Ren0vator's Bang Crunch build).
Towing economy
Economy depends on a lot of things, in stock trim with road tyres I got around 16L/100. With 2" lift and 245/75r17 Goodyear Silent Armor "P" construction tyres It went up to 17L/100. With aggressive A/T L/T 265/70r17 I average 19L/100.
Note: It's been said that the torque converter only locks when in 5th gear, and appears to be my experience. With the larger tyres the torque converter doesn't seem to lock unless I'm doing 100kph or more. From memory the torque converter used to lock at around 90kph with stock tyres.
I have since done a diff ratio change and going by trans temp readings I feel its locking under 100kph again.
The Grand feels well planted on the road when I tow, steering is a bit lighter but still solid. I haven't noticed any over or under steer problems, the steering input remains the same. I used to use a WDH but I found the ride is a lot smoother without it.