Ok, so I've locked down the kit I'm buying.
FYI Wooders were great! They are into working with your budget and completely honest. REALLY helpful and even suggested that he'd prefer to see me investing in some good tools than to spend $600 on getting someone else to install it for me - how's that for honesty! Another company completely rubbished what I was doing and proceeded to tell me that the only system worth looking at was around $5,500, and that was without rubber.
Ok so here goes...
Lift Kit -
Rubicon Express 3.5" Superflex Kit
Slipyoke - Slipyoke light, rear adjustable arms, lower shock relocation brackets and rubicon express driveshaft
Additional - Front adjustable panhard, Rubicon Express shocks.
TOTAL LIFT KIT - $3,635
Now I just need to decide on the rubber. I like the Mickey Thompsons, so I'm budgeting around $350 / tyre (x 5) for 33" x 16" rims x 10.5-12.5" wide (although over 10.5" I'll have to get extended flares) -
TOTAL FOR TYRES - $1750.
TOTAL LIFT + TYRES = $5444 inc postage
I'm not going gearing yet - I'll suck it and see how it goes. As it is I can't use 5th gear, so this may make it a bit worse. We'll see.